@How to tell if he's your hubby boyfriend Make a gun shape with your hand and go BANG!!! If he groans... and collapses, he's your hubby If he looks at you with a ? mark, he's patriarchal Nia would look with a ? and say, Is that a handgun? The posture you've taken right now is closer to reloading a rifle. That's not how you secure the muzzle. Since she'd probably talk like that, he's neither a hubby nor patriarchal, just an annoying-as-hell younger sibling (lol)